Mirror Psychology

We can avoid everything but not ourselves. When we avoid ourselves that implies that we live for others. We have to think for ourselves that what we are, what we possess? What have we done? What we are doing, moreover. To understand this entire phenomenon we must accept it with responsibility, the way everything has gone through as we have done it all, which is true further we have to accept that with reality because it is attached to all the consequences we face. So taking responsibility is like making understanding with ourselves. Find simple duties from time to time that will enhance skills and qualities.

                    To take responsibility is to take your power. Without discipline, this cannot be done. We have to be conscious of self-discipline. Let's start with this discipline by preparing our bed whenever we get up every morning. Get up early, do exercises, read books, write something, etc. It doesn't mean that we can't go out of it by being attached to a single responsibility. We should avoid the mentality of a single track. What we need to move on with is to go with the flow. Whatever accountability we find, we just need to take it and move on but not rush. We must be focused and concentrate on each step.

If we are responsible, that means we have to count errors and be-blamed for not blaming others, which is healthy, but we don't have to blame ourselves negatively, think that it was past which we can't change however learn and move on from our experiences. Say thank you always for these experiences we have.

                      Whenever we think that someone is guilty, at that particular time we should stand in front of the mirror and begin to criticize, then we will see that our finger points at us completely, after we can realize that "blaming directs us whatever we blame others" so here we come to know at the moment of accusing by this mirror technique that we are just using our energy to think about the mistakes that others have made, besides wasting our time thinking about them that automatically condemn us in a way like these mistakes belong to us which are not really our mistakes. Ultimately, we should not spend our time over thinking the mistakes of others.

                       Instead of this technique of blaming mirror psychology, we can improve ourselves by looking at it as our "insight expression". We can judge by talking, laughing, asking ourselves questions, styling, posture, expressions, etc.